tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post1098700547838602509..comments2023-11-05T01:37:00.989-06:00Comments on Bookish.Spazz: Kindly, stfuBookish.Spazzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04387281388903485299noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-82965562789779675252012-07-17T19:42:36.424-06:002012-07-17T19:42:36.424-06:00Thanks, Natalie. I'm going to talk to my dad ...Thanks, Natalie. I'm going to talk to my dad about working with an actual trainer.Bookish.Spazzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04387281388903485299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-20003018055515083742012-07-17T19:41:45.160-06:002012-07-17T19:41:45.160-06:00I'm going to try to look into a fitness group,...I'm going to try to look into a fitness group, but most of them meet only a few times a week. My dad wants me working out 6 days a week :/Bookish.Spazzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04387281388903485299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-54149193123325944032012-07-17T19:40:54.199-06:002012-07-17T19:40:54.199-06:00I've already had a fellow trainee tell me that...I've already had a fellow trainee tell me that I was overworking myself and that I would be MORE that prepared for training, but unfortunately my dad doesn't care.Bookish.Spazzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04387281388903485299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-64992802690926369812012-07-17T09:27:42.662-06:002012-07-17T09:27:42.662-06:00You're working so hard and doing everything ri...You're working so hard and doing everything right and he really just needs to back off. If you're ending up hurting yourself, it's not doing anyone any favors. As Helen said, maybe it would be better if someone other than your dad could help you, if possible. Hang in there, Lizzi. You are awesome.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15962106717375135503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-30011356176634107522012-07-17T07:53:54.672-06:002012-07-17T07:53:54.672-06:00Sweetness,
I think you should tell your dad to ba...Sweetness,<br /><br />I think you should tell your dad to back off a little bit. You're trying your damned hardest - hell, you hurt yourself to please him! - so therefore he should give you a break. I know better than anyone how hard it is to tell them to back off but I'm sure you'll be able to do it.<br /><br />Isn't there a fitness group you can join to get the initial training you need so it is a stranger helping you rather than your Dad??<br /><br />Helen xoHelennn Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12139865288169887551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-14037818596598804122012-07-17T07:15:04.049-06:002012-07-17T07:15:04.049-06:00I don't think parents are sometimes able to se...I don't think parents are sometimes able to see that they can't treat us in the same way a stranger would, because it's more personal when they do it.Boydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17628627487963908203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3800461721275952629.post-9823287068577276412012-07-17T04:42:53.004-06:002012-07-17T04:42:53.004-06:00You're right, your dad is supposed to help sup...You're right, your dad is supposed to help support you. I think that when you're actually going through the proper training, they won't push you nearly as hard. There's no use in an exhausted and injured soldier who damaged themselves in training. When it's going so far that you're pulling muscles, you really are trying more than hard enough.Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12118816573712396453noreply@blogger.com